Nice to know that I am not the only person with this problem!
Mind you, it does seem that I beat the odds more than once - not just a girlfriend, but a gorgeous wife, even! if it cvan happen to me, it can happen to anyone!

Fortunately, this equation is somewhat modified by the attractiveness of attraction. If a girl appears to like you, you will probably think her more attractive than you otherwise would have (she has such good taste, after all!) So that '2 stdev above the mean' beauty requirement is probably not really a requirement.